When a message lands and your pulse spikes, Message Shield helps you see the heat, decide what to ignore, and draft a calm reply—without taking the bait.
What you get
- A plain-language read on how toxic or escalatory the message is
- What you can ignore (noise vs logistics you must answer)
- A child-first, BIFF-style reply you can edit and send yourself
How to use it
- Open Message Shield from the chat starters (or describe the situation in chat).
- Paste the incoming message from your co-parent.
- Run Shield. Review the rating and calm reply. Copy what you’ll send.
What it is not
- Not a shared inbox or court messaging portal
- Not legal advice or therapy
- Does not send messages to your co-parent
Related: Tone Guardian (calm your draft), high-conflict message guide.
Try it on iPhone
Free trial · 7 days or 20 messages, whichever comes first. Cancel anytime in App Store settings.
