Co-parenting, without the escalation
Harmonize your
co-parenting
Child-first guidance. Clearer messages. Less conflict.
Free trial · 7 days or 20 messages · No pressure
Transform your post-divorce parenting journey
Draft calmer replies, stay organized around schedules, and keep the focus on your kids—not the conflict.
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Message help
Rewrite tough texts so they’re brief, firm, and civil.
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Real context
Guidance that respects your family details and decree when you add them.
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Child-first
Designed for high-tension co-parenting—not generic chat advice.
How it works
Three steps from a heated draft to a message you’re proud to send.
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Paste the hard message
Drop in what you want to say—or the text that just landed in your inbox.
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Get a calmer rewrite
Brief, firm, civil language that keeps the focus on the kids—not the fight.
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You send it
Copy into your own texts or email. You’re always in control of what goes out.
Gentler Coparent
You never stick to the plan. I’m done dealing with last-minute changes.
I’m sick of this. You’re impossible to co-parent with and the kids know it.
Let’s stick to the written schedule. If you need a change for Friday, send two options by Thursday noon so we can plan for the kids.
See the difference in one rewrite
Same logistics. Less heat. You stay in control of what actually gets sent.
Read the high-conflict message guide →Browse text message templates →
Built for high-conflict co-parenting
Not a shared inbox. Not a generic chatbot. A calmer voice when tension is high.
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Message rewrite, not surveillance
Draft firmer, shorter replies you send yourself—so you stay in control of the conversation.
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Your family context
Optional decree and schedule details help guidance stay practical—not one-size-fits-all advice.
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Child-first tone
Designed for parents who need boundaries without fueling the fight.
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Try before you commit
Free trial: 7 days or 20 messages, whichever comes first. Cancel anytime in App Store settings.
Discover Gentler Coparent
Hear the story behind the app—and how we’re supporting parents who need a clearer voice.
Frequently asked questions
Straight answers for parents comparing tools and starting a free trial.
What is Gentler Coparent?
An iOS app for high-conflict co-parenting: draft calmer, child-first messages and use optional family context—without a shared inbox or surveillance layer.
Is there a free trial?
Yes. 7 days or 20 messages, whichever comes first. Cancel anytime in App Store settings.
Is this like OurFamilyWizard or AppClose?
No. Those are co-parenting portals for shared messaging and records. Gentler Coparent helps you rewrite the messages you send—clearer tone, firmer boundaries, less fuel for the fight.
Does it give legal advice?
No. Suggestions are communication support only. For legal questions, talk to a qualified attorney.
Where do I download it?
On the App Store for iPhone.
How should I reply in a high-conflict text thread?
Keep it brief, factual, and child-first. Read our free guides: high-conflict messages and text message templates.
Ready for calmer co-parenting?
Download Gentler Coparent and start building a steadier future for your family.
Free trial · 7 days or 20 messages
From conflict to cooperation—focus on what matters most: your children.
