Before you send

Tone Guardian

Cool the draft while it’s still on your phone—not after it’s in their inbox.

Tone Guardian screen in Gentler Coparent

You’ve written the angry version. Tone Guardian helps you send the version that protects the kids and your long-term record.

What you get

  • Flags for heat, blame, and escalation risk
  • A calmer, BIFF-style rewrite you can still edit
  • Clear reminder: we don’t message anyone for you

How to use it

  1. Open Tone Guardian from chat starters.
  2. Paste the draft you were about to send.
  3. Tap calm / rewrite. Copy the version you’ll actually send.

When to use Shield vs Tone

  • Message Shield — they sent something hard; you need a response strategy.
  • Tone Guardian — you wrote something hot; you need a cooler send.

Related: Message Shield, text templates.

Try it on iPhone

Free trial · 7 days or 20 messages, whichever comes first. Cancel anytime in App Store settings.