Templates

Relocation notice messages

Moves are legal and emotional landmines—keep the text factual.

Relocation can trigger court processes. Your text is not the lawsuit: state dates, addresses (as appropriate), and how the kids’ schedule is affected—then follow counsel and your order.

Not legal advice. Relocation rules vary widely. Talk to a licensed attorney before moving or responding to a move.

Templates (communication only)

Providing notice of a planned move

I am providing notice that I plan to relocate with [Child] to [city/area] on or about [date], consistent with any notice requirements in our order. Proposed parenting-time adjustments: [brief]. Please confirm receipt. I am open to discussing a written plan that keeps [Child]’s school/stability in mind.

Acknowledging their notice

I received your notice about relocating to [area] around [date]. Please send any written proposal for the parenting schedule and school plan. I will review with counsel as needed and reply by [date].

Request details

To plan for [Child], please confirm: (1) target move date, (2) new school if known, (3) proposed exchange locations/times. Please reply in writing by [deadline].

Panic → facts

Before

“You’re kidnapping our kids across the country and I’ll destroy you in court.”

After

“I received your relocation notice for [date/area]. Please send the proposed school and parenting-time plan in writing by [deadline]. I’ll respond after review.”

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